Boyfriends

My DD is back to seeing the guy she was seeing before. And the same one she was seeing befor that. I think they have broken up and gotten back together 4 or 5 times now.

It's not that she hasn't had the opportunity to date other guys. She just doesn't care for them. Typically they stop seeing each other because of another girl.

I'm annoyed but she is so happy when she is seeing him. DD came for the weekend before Mardi Gras and had to go back Sunday. Sunday she was singing. We also went to work out some issues with her cell phone yesterday and she was singing.

DD did tell me she wanted to 'lay' with him. She agreed it was time to call the doctor. We had the discussion about having a baby that might cry. I just wanted to make sure she and I were on the same page.

The discussions are really simple but I want to know if her ideas on a baby have changed. She loves kids but gets really upset when they cry. DD cries too. Sometimes being the mother of an adult with Autism is complicated.

At the same time I want her to have a life with all of the richness it can have, I want her to have a life that works. I'm determined to give her the choice BUT I do remind her that babies cry. I'm just doing the best I can.